Do you ever feel like the weight of the world’s expectations of you are pulling you down? Do you have a hard time saying “no” to others? Do you often find yourself dwelling on your faults instead of giving yourself grace?
Despite what other people may demand of you, it actually is possible to set realistic expectations for yourself and to rest in those. My friend Amy Carroll, author of Exhale, joins me on the show to talk about what it means to “lose who you aren’t, love who you are, and live your one life well.” We all need to learn, at some level, to prioritize our daily lives and walk in God’s plan for us. This often requires giving ourselves a well-deserved break. A little grace never hurt nobody!
Amy and I chat about our need to please others and our perfectionistic mentalities. I’m sure many of you can relate! So join us as we dive headfirst into discussing our insecurities and flaws and how, exactly, we identify and use the gifts that God has given us. You can learn to not only embrace who you are but allow yourself to actually say “no” to the expectations of others that are not yours to carry.
Amy’s goal is for us to break up with perfect. God has something so much better for us than feeling disqualified. Once we release that spiritual clutter, we learn that there is no such thing as perfect, and we can finally embrace who He intended us to be.
I am so excited for y’all to listen. This is definitely one you aren’t going to want to miss!
Highlights from Today’s Episode:
- Setting realistic expectations
- Losing who you aren’t
- Understanding God’s plan
- What it means to exhale
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- “Jesus never lived by the tyranny of the urgent.” – Amy Carroll
- “You can’t live your one life well with emotional clutter.” – Amy Carroll
- “Women need to exhale.” – Chrystal Evans Hurst
Resources From Today’s Show
- Connect with Amy on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter or on her website
- Grab a copy of, Exhale: Lose Who You’re Not, Love Who You Are, Live Your One Life Well
- Interested in Next Steps Coaching Services? Find out more here.
Other Stuff to Check Out
- Have you grabbed this month’s freebie? Click here to grab it!
- Did you know that my dad, Dr. Tony Evans, has a Bible Commentary available? Click here to check it out! If you want to know more about my dad’s ministry and the multitude of resources he has available to help you in your walk with God, go to Tony Evans.org
- If you missed Episode #237 with Mary DeMuth, Click here to listen!
- Did you catch the latest video I uploaded to my YouTube channel? I shared a message I gave recently at my church on The Sword (The Word of God). Watch it by clicking HERE.
- My book, Be sure and also check out my other books She’s Still There,
- 28 Days of Prayer, Show Up For Your Life, Kingdom Woman!
- Get a chance to read my post about Cultivating Rhythms with God?
- Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying special benefits? Learn about becoming a co-producer!
After you’ve listened to the podcast, I’d love to continue the conversation. Be sure and leave a comment!
- How can you prioritize your life to make your every day more enjoyable?
- How often do you stop and ask God what His business is for you and what matters to Him in the present?
- Where is your angst coming from when it comes to expectations in your daily life?
- Often times, we dwell on our faults instead of appreciating our gifts. What gifts has God given you and in what ways can you thank Him in return?
- Where do you need to give yourself grace in your current season of life?
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