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Have you ever thought about the difference between responding and reacting? Whichever one you choose can make a big difference in the outcome of the circumstance and the health of your relationships. While most of us do not love change, the one thing you can count on in life is that change will occur and the unexpected will invariably find its way across your path. When you take the time to slow down and respond to the situation at hand, you can discover a way forward full of peace and clarity. 

 

 

A reaction to a situation is often our “knee jerk” response and is full of emotion. It is instantaneous and in the wrong situation can be destructive. Not all reaction is bad. Good reaction happens when you touch a hot stove or when you are alerted of danger because of an unexpected noise you hear. There are appropriate times where a reaction is exactly what is needed. What I am referring to here are those moments, often in relationships, where something has not gone as planned or when a reaction to a circumstance will be harmful to those around you. 

When a toddler is learning to walk and falls down your response in that moment can convince the child to keep calm or encourage them to commence crying. Those parents who have learned the power of positive feedback respond with encouragement and support. They clap their hands, smile, share happy words, and encourage the new walker to try again. This is how you and I can learn to respond when chaos erupts in our life.  You slow down, use measured words, and create a constructive atmosphere for peace to come in. 

As you operate from the overflow of God’s goodness in your life, remember that He will provide for all of your needs. This truth can empower you to slow down and take the time to respond instead of react. You can trust that God holds you in the palm of His hands. Responding allows you to communicate with thoughtfulness and care. It also allows you to leave others whole and intact after interacting with you. A response carries grace and truth. 

 

 

Whatever circumstances you are facing today my friend, you have the power to choose! Will you choose to react or respond? This simple distinction can make all the difference as you maneuver through the unexpected things that come your way. When was the last time you responded and reaped the benefits? Have you ever reacted and regretted it? What have you learned about the power of a positive response? The good news is that whether we learn from past experiences or from others sharing their experiences with us, as long we still have breath, we have the opportunity to learn and grow.

Highlights from Today’s Episode

  • There is a difference between responding and reacting
  • A thoughtful response brings clarity and peace to the situation at hand
  • You can learn how to be more responsive instead of reactive

Resources from today’s show

  • Did you catch Podcast Episode #326, “Think Before You Speak”? For more on the power of your words, take a listen!

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  1. What recent circumstance provided you an opportunity to respond or react? Which did you do?
  2. How has this teaching helped you to evaluate your responses and dig deeper into your beliefs?
  3. Where do I need to shift my perspective?
  4. Who is a trusted source I can go to for a different perspective on the situation? 
  5. Where can I bring peace, understanding and grace to those around me?

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