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Have you ever come to a tipping point because you’ve become who everyone else wants you to be, yet you’re still not who you want to be either? Have you people-pleased your way right into acceptance only to realize you’re living a double life that you don’t love? Do you ever feel like you are unsure of who you really are?
If any of this describes you, I know you are exhausted! At times in my life, this has definitely described me, and trying to be someone I was not, wore me plum out!
Tabitha Brown understands the journey of becoming comfortable in her own skin, accepting the unique gift of her soul in this world, and embracing who God created her to be. We know Tab as the friendly and encouraging voice on social media who serves up recipes, laughs, and life lessons, while she also reminds us to mind our business in the nicest and best way. Her journey to get where she is today started 20 years ago. She didn’t always show up as the Tab we know and love.
After years of working in entertainment, Tabitha got to the point where she knew she wasn’t showing up as her true self. She was getting the opportunities and jobs she wanted by being who everyone else wanted her to be and doing what everyone else wanted her to do. But the acceptance of others came at the expense of letting her true personality shine. What she thought would give her more freedom to create and inspire was actually holding her back from living a life she loved.
In our conversation, Tabitha and I talk about how to recognize who you are and what it takes to talk well in your own shoes. We also talk about how you being you blesses others.
Experiencing the freedom of showing up as yourself will not only allow you to live fully, it will also compel you to cheer on the people in your circle to be themselves, too.
Even though she seems so easy to love and adore, Tabitha isn’t a stranger to criticism or negative comments. But when you know yourself and your assignment, it makes it easier to not pay any mind to the haters, keep your joy and move through your life with grace. Tab knows that God is leading her and she is committed to honoring her purpose even when she has to give strong no’s to give even stronger yeses. Do you desire to say yes to living well, to walk in freedom and to honor the gift of you in this world? Well then, this conversation will be food for your soul.
Our conversation is full of wisdom and life lessons. From motherhood to the pursuit of goals to managing a full life and fulfilling purpose, this chat will inspire you to live your best life in your shoes.
Never forget that God always dreams bigger plans for you than you have for yourself (Ephesians 3:20). He also honors those who put Him first (Psalm 37:4).
Embrace the life He has prepared for you. Be who He created you to be. Walk in freedom, and take hold of your assignment. Tabitha Brown has found joy and abundance in being uniquely herself.
The same can be true for you too.
Highlights from Today’s Episode:
- How to show up as yourself
- Discerning self-care and selfishness
- The joy of living free
Resources from today’s show
- Connect with Tabitha on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or her website.
- Grab a copy of Tabitha’s book Feed the Soul (Because It’s My Business): Finding Our Way to Joy, Love, and Freedom
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- “When I tried to be who everyone else wanted me to be, I was disrespecting God. It meant that I thought He didn’t do a good enough job on me that I had to transform and be someone else. When I started showing up as me, He honored that.” – Tabitha Brown
- “I was trying to survive and become something else. But all I needed to do was become me.” – Tabitha Brown
- “How do you know who the real you is? When you’re the most comfortable and the least conscious of what other people think.” – Chrystal Hurst
- “God always dreams bigger dreams than we do for ourselves.” – Chrystal Hurst
- “Speak truth in love and with a smile. You can say what needs to be said without trading your joy.” – Chrystal Hurst
- “Don’t believe or fear the limitations placed on you. Live free. Nothing can stop your destiny.” – Tabitha Brown
- You’re still here, so you still have work to do. God still has purpose for you.” – Tabitha Brown“
Other Stuff to Check Out
- Want to check out other conversations related to this topic? Consider listening to #292 – “Showing Up Authentically” with Morgan Harper Nichols and #114 – “Showing up in your Relationship with God” with Chrissy Cymbala Toledo.
- Watch my Youtube chat on “How To Love Yourself”.
- Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
- Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying bonus content? Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
- Be sure to also check out my books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, The 28-Day Prayer Journey, and Kingdom Woman!
Let’s Talk!
- What stood out to you or challenged you from this episode?
- Evaluate your actions and motives. Are you putting on a people-pleasing act, or are you embracing who you are and living in that freedom?
- What can you do this week to show up as the best version of yourself for the people who depend on you? Consider setting boundaries around your time or saying “no” to things that drain you.
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I’m not one to like change, but let me tell you…..that music was too appropriate for Tab!! Nice work DJ Hurst 😉
Well! Thank you for noticing my DJ efforts!