#182 – Forgiving Yourself – Healing From Abortion

#182 – Forgiving Yourself – Healing From Abortion

Unforgiveness can be a strong force in our lives. If we choose to hold on to it, over time it will gradually harden our hearts, affecting everything from our actions to our beliefs. We may even begin to see what someone did as who they are. As Christians, we are often reminded–as we should be–of the importance of forgiving others. But what happens when the person we cannot forgive is ourselves? What happens when we come to see ourselves as nothing more than the mistakes we’ve made?

Kontessa Kiel shares how unforgiveness towards herself created a “disconnect” with God, and how reconnecting with him enabled her to love herself again.  She shares the journey of healing she took after going through the pain of abortion, and how that journey enabled her to empower others to heal as well. Processing the overwhelming feelings of shame, guilt, and unforgiveness completely changed how she saw herself, and she now she seeks to bless others with her testimony. In fact, Kontessa is now the Director of Operations for Thrive Women’s Clinic, which serves women who want to explore their options for an unexpected pregnancy and are in need of counseling and medical consultations.

Forgiving others is often a difficult task, but forgiving ourselves can feel nearly impossible. The intense anxiety we experience from facing past decisions and the repercussions we know we deserve are very real, but in Christ, there is relief available. There is forgiveness. There is a path from a hurting heart to a healed one. Kontessa offers a deeply personal perspective on how healing can begin with acceptance.

Join Kontessa and I as we have an intimate conversation about faith, self-love, and redemption.  

Highlights from Today’s Episode:

  • What it means to forgive yourself
  • Nothing disconnects you from God permanently
  • Healing so that you can love yourself again

Quotes:

  • “Are you ready to forgive yourself?” – Kontessa
  • “God loves all of me.” – Chrystal
  • “What scares you about forgiving yourself?” – Kontessa

Resources From Today’s Show 

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Take a look at Kingdom Woman by Chrystal Evans Hurst and Tony Evans

Let’s Talk!

After you’ve listened to the podcast, I’d love to continue the conversation. Be sure and leave a comment!

  1. Have you ever had difficulty forgiving yourself?
  2. What scares you about forgiving yourself?
  3. Have you ever felt disconnected from God because of past mistakes in life?

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By |2018-08-23T05:56:13+00:00August 20th, 2018|Faith, Podcast|1 Comment
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  1. TTG September 28, 2018 at 12:46 pm - Reply

    Thank you for this. Similar story, 15 years later God is calling me to a deeper level of healing

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