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Have you ever been so angry with someone…
that you bristle when you hear their name?
Is there a person that has disappointed you so terribly that even thinking about the thought of him or her leads to tears welling up in your eyes?
Or maybe you’ve been so hurt that forgiving another person seems like an impossible thing to do.
The reality is that the idea of forgiveness is simple…
but the act of forgiving may not be as easy.
Most of us would acknowledge that should we should forgive but there are many that struggle with exactly how to do it.
Because forgiveness is a matter of the heart, the emotions of hurt, anger, disappointment, and pain can sometimes obscure the importance of extending mercy and grace. However, forgiveness is worth figuring out. It releases both the giver and the receiver and allows both to experience the gift of freedom from the past.
So how exactly do we forgive? What are some practical tips for releasing another person?
Today’s podcast shares a few tips and guiding principles that have worked… and are still working for me.
Join me for today’s chat by clicking “play” at the top of this post or via iTunes or Stitcher.
Forgive as the Lord forgave you. Colossians 3:13 NIV
Highlights from Today’s Episode:
“Figuring Out Forgiveness”
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Be conscious about your need to forgive.
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Have compassion for the person that has offended or hurt you.
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Release the person. Holding them hostage is in reality holding yourself hostage to the pain.
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Forgive the action or the wrong done by the person to you.
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- How did today’s podcast help you?
- Who is God asking you to release and forgive?
- What can you do today to take a first step toward forgiving another?
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wow, wow, wow! This podcast SPOKE TO ME. I’ve heard many a sermon on forgiveness, but never have they resonated in my heart like yours did. I found myself asking, “Exactly WHAT is it that I truly need to forgive?” I know the who, they why, the how (well, sort of), and the when – but the ‘what’ stumped me. You said, “when you love fully, and someone takes your heart, it TAKES TIME to recover.” I think I felt that I had to forgive quickly, and be done with it. The fact that you explain that it is a conscious decision, a cycle, and that I have to do it over and over again, is my key. Thank you so much, Chrystal, for allowing my heart to be open to this important decision. I’m giving myself a break, but I WILL MAKE THE EFFORT to work through it… You are amazing. Thank you.
I never knew forgiveness for the same person and issue is constant . For him, I cringe and majority of refuse to speak. For me, it begins with recognizing those acts are from a hurt person. Forgiveness takes time and effort. I will remember that. Thanks
WOW! This was powerful. Love the way you broke it down. Thank you.
Crystal I just wanted to say thank you for this podcast. It was truly what I needed to hear about forgiveness. My husband has hurt me in a way I never could have imagine and though we are separated I love him and time and time again I struggle with forgiving him for his hurtful actions. I tried to understand why he is being hurtful and why he was not remorseful when like you explained it’s just not a why for the actions. I really have to let go and continue to let go and especially for the fact of having a son together. I am currently struggling with certain decisions and would really love it if you would keep me in your prayers. Thank you again.
Praying for you tonight Rachel 🙂